Since love is specific, these parents learned "the more attention and time you give to your questions, the more beautiful the answers become." Rather than a generic, "how was your day?" ("because they don't know. Their day was a lot of things."), they ask:
" How did you feel during your spelling test?"
"What did you say to the new girl when you all went out to recess?"
"Did you feel lonely at all today?"
"Were there any times you felt proud of yourself today?"